Now, I consume media with violence, just not the type where it is about putting on full-display the utter horrific-ness (new word!) that the above do. Die Hard is a fantastic movie, with a fantastic villain. But, we don't spend a ton of time on Hans Gruber torturing the hostages, all shown in gory detail. I find that level of - heck, I don't even know what to call it other than crap - troubling in a societal sense. Like the Fall of Rome/Gladiator type troubling.
Hope that helps you understand where I am coming from.