Well, no, the question is about the fourth option:I mean, if the question is what to do about this situation, then the answer is the same as it is to basically every other problem-at-the table, meaning that you have the following choices:
1. Have a conversation with the other person about what bothers you
2. Don't play with the person whose behavior bothers you
3. Make peace with the person's bothersome behavior because it's not going to change and you can't or don't want to bail on the game for whatever reason
4. Make peace with the person's bothersome behavior because that's just part of what RPGing is, and higher expectations were unreasonable
This thread was more intended to ask if 4 was actually the correct option and so far several posts have suggested that in fact it is.