Does the math.
She didn't just barge into the narrative, but into Hannalore's life, complete with guilt-tripping and manipulation. And crawling over a bar to make Hannalore's coffee *on the job*. The only equivalent is May, and even she broke down and confessed she could be dismissed before her two days were up.I don't get it, why the rabid hostility to Tilly? They barged in uninvited into the narrative, sure, but that's how many (most?) of the other characters came in, too, and I don't see people wishing gory death on them.
When you're less respectful of personal boundaries than May-in-Robot-Jail, you've got a problem.