Draconian GM on TBP
And thus they get a fidget spinner to play with. Frankly there is room for acomodating stuff for people with issue but if one side has to make all the compromise and the other wont even do something as basic as "dont doodle where the stats are do it on the side" then is an issue.That's easy, the character sheet is the one that they constantly have to reference. They doodle on what they focus on. It doesn't have to make sense to you, but it might be key to keeping their mind focused on the game. I game with some people with really bad ADHD (one can't even sit at the table and constantly stands and walks around even when running the game) and what you describe sounds like things they do to manage. Their brains just work differently than yours.